Is there any organization advising children and teens on how to prepare themselves for love rather than sex? Love is hard work, but the pleasure is long lasting and not a fleeting few minutes. Does anyone teach them why it is important to be virtuous in all aspects of life and to be a hardworker who performs their duties cheerfully? This will help a person be a rock with whom a spouse and children can find stability, and thus happiness. My advice would be to focus on love rather than sex, take time to become a rock, and look for a spouse who is a rock. After marriage, the sex can come, and without a lot of the stress of sex in the precarious unmarried world.